Wednesday, 23 June 2010

"How to loose your virginity"- the wrong film title to leave on your computer when your friends come round

Remember a while ago, I pointed my faithful readers (/reader?/imaginary friends?) in the direction of all the great stuff on the blog The American Virgin?

Well, they're producing a film examining the myths of virginity in the American culture, and looking for donations. Go and check them out, have a look at what they've been doing and give what you can. Also, I'm sure they'd love to hear from other asexuals, or indeed anyone, who's interested in doing a First Person post (I've written one which should be out soonish, more on that story later).

I feel I really should explain why I've not been posting much. Partly, it's because college is screaming to a finish, partly it's because the sun's shining and I've suddenly lost interest in my computer. Partly it's because I spent quite a while researching for a Flibanserin post and then lost all the research. All I can really remember is that google returns shockingly few results for "I have HSDD" (and by shockingly few, I mean 3), and that I was going to conclude cautiously with this very good summing up of all my present knowledge from Feminists with FSD:

The thought that keeps popping into my mind is, “So an asexual woman and a woman with sexual dysfunction walk into a bar…“
What I mean by that is, I can’t figure out what the next line in that setup is but there’s something going on there…

More on that story later, maybe?


  1. I know what you mean re: losing interest in computer and study demands!

    I had to look up HSDD to know what you meant, I used Bing instead of Google and got plenty o' results :)

  2. Thanks for mentioning the blog and film, SM! We would indeed love to hear from all of you. In our series First Person, people talk about virginity lost, kept or totally ignored.

    You can check out the series at:

    Look for SM's post in the next few days.

  3. I am a reader! I have nothing else to add, but I do indeed frequent this blog, and I read things posted on it.

  4. Fun factoid: I actually e-mailed Gray Lady from Grasexuality a few days ago with some answers to questions about FSD & filbasnerin, from some asexual bloggers. Let's wait & see what comes from that e-mail if anything cuz I want to wait to see what she does with it before I do anything with it.